如果有一天… If someday…

昨晚,一个无聊的话题,我问了老公一个话题,
老婆: 嘿,如果有一天,我病了,你会照顾我吗?
老公: 会啊
老婆: 假如我突然中风呢?
老公: 我也会照顾你啊
老婆: 但是我们没有孩子,你得照顾我,帮我抹身体,帮我冲凉, 喂我吃饭, 很辛苦的…
老公: 当然啊,你是我老婆,我不照顾你,谁会啊 ?
老婆: 还是不要你那么辛苦, 你就把我送去老人园或是养老院,或是疗养园吧,那边起码有护士小姐可以照顾我,你也不需要那么辛苦… 如果你还年轻的话, 需要一个伴的话,你还可以去找…
老公: <<瞪了我一眼>> 你发神经啊? 老婆可以随便选的吗? 你老公我是这样的人吗? 老婆是一个而已,一生的…

我听了, 就抓着他的手…紧紧的不放…

突然,

老公: 哦,还有,我昨晚发了一个梦, 梦见我们有两个小孩叻… 所以不必担心,以后我们会有孩子的… 我们不是孤单的….

我听了…真是没他的…. ^_^

Yesterday when we were on our way back home, I asked him,

Wife : if someday I’m fall sick, will you take care of me?
Husband: of course I will
Wife: what if someday im had a stroke?
Husband : I still will take care of you…
Wife: But we don’t have kids as well, you are the only one need to take care of me, as I cant move, you got to help me clean up, shower, feeding meal to me… everything…It’s very tiring
Husband: of course I will do that, you are my wife, if I’m not taking care of you, who will?
Wife: still I don’t want you be so tired, if that’s really happen one day, you can send me to nursing home, at least there have nurse to take care of me, so you don’t have to be trouble; and if you are lonely and need a companion, you can go to find a partner to be with you..
Husband: Are you crazy? You thought wife can simply chose? You thought I’m that kind of man that will ignore the wife when she is sick? You are my wife, the only one, its for whole life….

After I heard what he said… I hold his hand tightly…

But suddenly,

Husband : oh, by the way, yesterday I dreamt that we have 2 kids, so you don’t have to worried, in future we will have kids to accompany us….we are not alone…

Hahah I was speechless after heard him saying that….

After 1 year....

haiz... after 1 year, only i came back to blog... previously I used to update in multiply ( lsyuen0827.multiply.com) or friendster... but I noticed in thsi blog, its get me keep in touch with my sister in law ( Ilene), my cousin ( Anthony), my niece( Lena )... Its really wonderful experiences..

About my sister in law, Ilene , I seldom talk to her when I was small and stayed with my aunt at kepong, but will know more about when I used to play with my niece Lena, as she is Ilene wonderful daughter. In my past memory, due to I seldom talk to my SIL, but I always wonder in my heart that ," is my SIL a western lady? why she so fair?" hahah Thats was my silly question when I was small.... but I know she is a lovely mother towards her daughter...

About my Niece, Lena, when she was born I was 9 years old, due to I'm the youngest at home, so everyday after school, I used to go to my aunt's house and played with her... she was very cute and chubby... but now she almost Taller than me already... Wow... Times pass so fast...

Abt my cousin, Anthony, he just like my younger brother... I remembered last time when I used to stayed overnight at his house at Gombak, and He let me walked into his house and played his pc but he dont let his own sister do that... why? hahah I also dont know why... must ask him that.. hahah

Guess what, after so many years, we all have changed, Im grad and back to KL to work abt 5 years already, move away from Kepong and stayed at a new place with my own family... While my cousin is now at Aus;my SIL now keep herself updated with blog, facebook, writtng books;while my niece, now studying at Singapore...

ahha so many changes for each of us... Guess what, due to I'm having my business trip at SG at the moment, I get a chance to meet up my niece tomorrow for dinner and shopping adventures... hahah
Sound fun...

As said, Life can be beautifu without regrets, Although Its easy,but its not simple

This is the first day

This is the first day i created a blog for myself beside the blog at friendster...

Wll slowly update some post later on....

Cheers up my friends.... Life goes on..

Regards,
Adelyn