Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Good Bye 2009

Today is the last day of 2009.. Tomorrow will be another brand new day for 2010… when I turn on the radio MY FM, the DJ was asking, what are the most unforgettable things in 2009 for you? I secretly dropped an sms to the radio channel ( don’t want to let hubby knows ) , but not sure whether they will read out or not…

Here I have think back what happened in this past few months,

2009, 1st quarter, I’m facing a terrible supervisor in work but luckily on 2nd half years I reported to another supervisor which is much more better than the terrible human…

2009, 2nd quarter, I lost my aunty who passing away on June 2009…

2 months later, I lost my beloved sister august 2009; it was the most terrible day for me, most unforgettable day for me, caused I was experienced the moment which her, seeing everything happened…49 days later, I had no choice but need to continue my wedding day who falls on the 49th day passing away of my sister on the next month later…

I guess this is the most unforgettable things for me in 2009…

2009, I have to learn to adjust my life after officially being someone’s wife, daughter in law, taking care of my only one nephew, continue taking care of my queen & king at home...

What is my resolution for 2010? I just hope everyone beside me, have a wonderful years ahead, take good care of themselves, have a blissful years and being healthy and cheerful always….

Happy New Year to you all…

Thursday, October 1, 2009

Finally... I'm officially Married with many blessing from relatives and friends


Finally, Its over


26.09.2009, I couldn't sleep the whole night, It was around 1am... mum and my 5th auntie ( mum's brother's wife ) still talking in the living room, talking abt the past... Myself and my nephew, YangYang were in the room... Yangyang already went to sleep as he was playing the whole night with his cousins and I guess this could be one of the happy day,with all the companions for him since his mum( my sis )passed away last month.


I tried to sleep but failed. I keep thinking how it could be nice if my sis still here? I keep look at YangYang, guess he not sleep well also... as his hand keep holding my hand while he was slept. I kept looking around and around and just don't want to close my eye... but at the end, i fall asleep around 3am.


At 6am, I woke up, giving my pray to the family, washed my face, shower, My Make up artist came. I started make up. My friends, my cousins all arrives from times to times, by the time, 8am, I have finished my make-up and everything, chit -chat with friends, my cousins, while waiting him to arrive....


At 9.15am, he arrived, and my cousin, Anthony also arrived on time from Aus to KL. Everything went ok, and first time I heard hubby sang songs to me... Although its not from Hk singer, but it still the best from him... heheh


at 11am, I moved my way to kajang, my new house, my cousins and friends accompany me all the way to Kajang from Kepong. I was very touched by that... all accompany me for the journey.


Morning sessin ended around 2.30pm and I get time to remove all the ICI paint on my face for 1 hour and I started to make up again for evening sessin around 4pm...


at 7pm, all the guests started to arrive at the restaurant to share our joys... First time my family , my dad n 2 uncles were on same stage... I look at my mum as she was sitting look at me, I love her so much...


Thanks everything and everyone who giving us such a great night....


Sunday, April 26, 2009

Please respect my house!!!!!

what a terrible Monday morning

I'm not trying to talk bad on those people... but please, i really feel so fed up with them

It's all about my house renting to a M*L*Y couple. both around 30++, They rented my apartment on February 2008, as its all come with the light in the rooms and each rooms has celling fans as well as the kitchen cabinet is ready for them to use.

At first I saw the husband, quite polite, then 1 month later, he installed the air con in my rooms without seeking of our approval or informed us earlier... fine, I sabar this time as just air con... but inside still unhappy as he should respect us as we are the house owner, anything he want to do with the house, he should inform us earlier.. but not only we found out by ourselves later when we went to collect our letters rental...

Then after few months later, started delaying the house rental... from 1st of each month, started to delay until 5th or 6th of the month... then happened when during Puasa time, he started using Puasa time, his client owe him money thats why he delay teh rental... and asked to pay on mid of the month, 15th, then ok, I let him also as I was at oversea that time, couldnt force anything... Then later 1 week after 15th, rental still not yet pay, then I called him again then he said business slow la, and request to pay me by month end but thats another empty promises again and only pay half month rental. When comes to another month, He still owe me half month rental and havent paid, then I called him again and he said will pay me latest by 7th....

when its come to 7th, empty stories again and when I called him again, he questioned me back whether am I Ah Long and why I keep chasing him rental.... Hey! He owe my rental for 2 months and keep telling fake excuses , of course I got to call him for that as He is still staying at my house for FREE!@^%*&^(*^%%$*

Then that makes me very angry already and I warmed him that he got to move from my house by mid of the month, then he said he couldnt find house and ask to stay until year end... fine... I was so stupid, let them stay again....

Guess what happen again this time, I went to collected the letter this morning and noticed they delay the TNB bill almost RM 200++ and thats the warning letter from TNB that will cut the electric supply on 25th April!!!!!!!!!!! I was so angry and I walked up to ring the house, guess what i saw again? They make a hole on my main door like those hotel door which can see outside from the house inside, and again, they never informed us and request our permission!! @%*&%*^(%%(^#$#

I press the door bell many times and no one come out... I immediated call their telephone, the wife answered. I questioned her that why havent pay the TNB bill and why never inform us as what they did on our house. then she blamed me back that why im so choosy and didnt allow them install aircon, this and that... I was so pissed off, I never said cannot, but at least inform us earlier before doing anything on the house as we are the house owner and they should respect us.....

I was so angry and just tell her that to stay until this month end and ask them to move out as they dont have any house deposit on our hand already and I have the right to call them leave immediately with no need 1 month noticed. Then she said ok.

later a few minutes later, the husband called me with a super polite tone, I was colling down and just listed down and told him what I have got this morning and what Im angry as they dont respect us as we are the hosue owner, and also told him that his clever wife said will move out on month end as I will be collecting the key back... then he use a soft tone and ask to stay for until 15th May and will leave on that day. And he thought he is a good tenants and asked me back whether I am comfirm to ask them leave or not, I just said Yes, comfirmed this time.

Then he only put down the phone.

What the hell with this kind of people... I guess they never take Moral class during highschool and never eat pork, thats why no pig brain and become so stupid and so rude....


what the @)(*()&)(^)(()*&)_&@()^*(&^()#79

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

如果有一天… If someday…

昨晚,一个无聊的话题,我问了老公一个话题,
老婆: 嘿,如果有一天,我病了,你会照顾我吗?
老公: 会啊
老婆: 假如我突然中风呢?
老公: 我也会照顾你啊
老婆: 但是我们没有孩子,你得照顾我,帮我抹身体,帮我冲凉, 喂我吃饭, 很辛苦的…
老公: 当然啊,你是我老婆,我不照顾你,谁会啊 ?
老婆: 还是不要你那么辛苦, 你就把我送去老人园或是养老院,或是疗养园吧,那边起码有护士小姐可以照顾我,你也不需要那么辛苦… 如果你还年轻的话, 需要一个伴的话,你还可以去找…
老公: <<瞪了我一眼>> 你发神经啊? 老婆可以随便选的吗? 你老公我是这样的人吗? 老婆是一个而已,一生的…

我听了, 就抓着他的手…紧紧的不放…

突然,

老公: 哦,还有,我昨晚发了一个梦, 梦见我们有两个小孩叻… 所以不必担心,以后我们会有孩子的… 我们不是孤单的….

我听了…真是没他的…. ^_^

Yesterday when we were on our way back home, I asked him,

Wife : if someday I’m fall sick, will you take care of me?
Husband: of course I will
Wife: what if someday im had a stroke?
Husband : I still will take care of you…
Wife: But we don’t have kids as well, you are the only one need to take care of me, as I cant move, you got to help me clean up, shower, feeding meal to me… everything…It’s very tiring
Husband: of course I will do that, you are my wife, if I’m not taking care of you, who will?
Wife: still I don’t want you be so tired, if that’s really happen one day, you can send me to nursing home, at least there have nurse to take care of me, so you don’t have to be trouble; and if you are lonely and need a companion, you can go to find a partner to be with you..
Husband: Are you crazy? You thought wife can simply chose? You thought I’m that kind of man that will ignore the wife when she is sick? You are my wife, the only one, its for whole life….

After I heard what he said… I hold his hand tightly…

But suddenly,

Husband : oh, by the way, yesterday I dreamt that we have 2 kids, so you don’t have to worried, in future we will have kids to accompany us….we are not alone…

Hahah I was speechless after heard him saying that….